First, the relevance of “being reserved” is treated as highly significant ( its probably the s:: martest thing I've heard in about (0.6) three years. ); second, reservation is characterized as a new perspective on the relationship or a “leap forward” in thinking (“ I'v-have never thought of it that way. ”); and third, they convey strong affiliation with the therapist's view that reservation could be a relationship problem.
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